How to get her to say yes

A guest blogger offers her take on how a guy can get a girl to say yes to a first date.

How to get her to say yes
Every guy has trouble getting a date with that one girl they are crushing on, even if they don’t admit it! Well here are some helpful do’s and don’ts to help you get the courage to ask her out.

1) Be sure to clean up! Don’t ask her coming straight from the gym or in sweats. Present yourself well and make a good first impression.

2) Compliment her before you ask her out. Show her that you are interested.

3) Don’t tell her what you have planned for the date. Just ask her if she will accompany you on a romantic date.

4) Be nice, show her you can be a gentleman!

5) Be interested in her. Listen to what she has to say. Prove to her you listen!

6) Look her in the eyes!

1) Don’t ask her out in a text! You are basically ruining any chance of her saying yes.

2) Don’t show that you are nervous. Chances are she will be too!

3) Don’t act like you have a bunch of girls hanging all over you. Girls absolutely hate that!

4) Don’t act cocky. Be confident!


6) Don’t stand there checking her out!
These are just some of the things that will help you in getting a date with that one special girl. Believe me us girls notice the little things about a guy. So smile and look her in the eyes. Be confident in yourself. Show her you have an interest in who she is and not in her body. This will get you on her good side and definitely get you chances for more dates!

What do you think? What’s worked for you in getting a girl to yes? Or, girls, how can a guy win you over when asking you out?

A Gentleman’s Clothes Always Fit Well

Yes, it is important to have nice clothes.  But even more important to wear them well.

Here, we get some advice on clothes and fit.

The point is:  Your clothes should fit.  They should fit YOU.  They should fit you as you currently are — not as you imagine you are or as you may well be after months of training for a half marathon.

Buy basics and buy high quality.  The best made pair of pants, a well done blue blazer.  Quality ties that work with basic shirts. 

This is how it starts.  You buy well and what you can afford and you build. 

Men especially benefit from the keep it simple rule.  You can have a small collection of high quality basics and look great every day.  IF your clothes fit.

Not sure if your clothes fit well?  Take a trusted friend (probably a female) along with you and ask her opinion.  Or, talk with the sales associate where you shop and get their feedback.  Honest feedback from a retailer is priceless.  They know that if you are happy with how you look when you leave, you’ll come back.  So, ASK. Don’t just buy a shirt that you think looks nice — try it on if you’re not sure and GET AN OPINION.

A gentleman takes sound advice in stride and uses it to his advantage.

So, again, buy and wear clothes that fit.  A basic premise of being a gentleman.